Hey,
Starting with the basics, im a 16 year old male, which masturbates, and can ususally last around 5 minutes, and can keep an errection without any problems what so ever, i can even get an errection thinking about secual intercouse.
today, i had sexual intercourse with my girlfriend for the first time, we were both virgins. We cuddled on the sofa before, and it was all romantic, we got down to the underwear, and i noticed i couldnt maintain an errection, this was an insane shock, becuase ive ALWAYS been able to get one, ive even beein aboe to get them that easily ive resorted to looking on the internet at how to prevent one.
Anyway, i ignored it and we took our clothes off, i noticed i STILL didnt have an errection, my girlfriend got me one by using her hand, however VERY briefly, must have been for around 15 seconds at the most, i got one and we slipped on a condom.
within about 15 seconds from this, i noticed it was already starting to lose its errection.
We tried pushing it into her, and we got about half way there, and i slipped it back out because of her pain.
i then noticed it was getting even softer, to the point the condom had sagged. She noticed this too, so she used her hand again to try and give me an errection again, although i didnt get a full errection, during this time, i ejeculated.
so basically, here are the questions in short:
1) why couldnt i keep the errection even though ive been able to my whole life, and as soon as i want sex, i cant maintain one?
2) Why did i get “too excited” too quicky and ejecuate after about, 20 seconds total of her using her hands?
Please help me, its really upset me and i really feel down.
Thankyou in advance.
ps. ive heard it could be due to nerves, however i didnt feel nervous or anything, i was just looking forward to doing it all morning and day?
First Time Having Intercouse, All Went Wrong, I Have Questions? Please.?
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one of the two reasons.
For question 1. This is likely from nervousness
1 > You were to nervous and felt pressured to do something you had never done before, even if you say “You were not nervous” or you could not feel it, that doesn’t mean you weren’t we tend to get nervous without even knowing it, its simply over excitement.
(Now if you tell me you can’t get an erection anymore … than that’s more doctoral, meaning that you have masturbated to many times which requires it to re-flow blood properly to your body. This can also explain the next question)
question 2:
over masturbation, from a long period of time, it makes ejaculation come earlier.
But also, when you are being masturbated for the FIRST TIME < you are so exited so pleased you can’t control your urges, it’s different to be massaged by someone else than yourself, next time she does it your body will be more used to the pleasure and will most likely last longer.
While you may not have felt nervous, I’m sure there were other psychological things going on in your brain at the time. Sex is part physical and part emotional. If you don’t have both working properly at the same time you will have difficulties.
Women are overrated anyways. Homemade apple pie is where it’s at.
maybe your girlfriend just isnt as attractive as you previously thought?
don’t even worry about this at all. My bf is 18 and he was a virgin, we waited 6 months and when we first tried having sex he could not keep his erection. he was so ashamed but i think its just nerves. the next day i just grabbed a condom (but didnt tell him), got him aroused and slipped in on quickly and I went on top and did all the work. Worked fine that time lol. Also, expect to not last very long ur first few times, you will improve the more u do it. and if u dont last very long, be a gentleman and finish ur gf off with ur hand or mouth lol